Once a child reaches the age of 16, they can usually consent to their own treatment. The law about children consenting to treatment is very complicated, so make sure you discuss any concerns you have with your child’s doctor.
Before you or your child is asked to sign the form, you should be given full information about:
- the type and extent of the treatment
- its advantages and disadvantages
- any significant risks or side effects
- any other treatments that may be available
If you don‘t understand what you’ve been told, let the staff know so they can explain again. Some cancer treatments are complex, so it’s not unusual for people to need repeated explanations.
Many children are offered cancer treatment that is part of a clinical trial. Trials can be done for a number of reasons. Remember, any treatment suggested for your child will be the best treatment for them. If a trial is suggested, you’ll be given information about it and what it involves. You will have to consent to the trial as well as to the treatment itself.
It’s a good idea to have your partner, a relative or friend with you when the treatment is explained, to help you remember the discussion. You may also find it useful to write a list of questions before your child’s appointment.
People sometimes feel that hospital staff are too busy to answer their questions, but it is important for you to know how the treatment is likely to affect your child. The staff should be willing to make time for your questions.
You can always ask for more time if you feel that you can’t make a decision when the treatment is first explained. In emergencies, decisions may have to be made quickly, but otherwise it’s usually possible to have more time to think things over.